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“I BELIEVE YOU”- THE WORDS EVERY CHILD DESERVES TO HEAR.

I BELIEVE YOU
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“I BELIEVE YOU”- THE WORDS EVERY CHILD DESERVES TO HEAR.

She stood there, surrounded by strangers, the accusing voice of a shopkeeper ringing in her ears, her child by her side, confused, maybe scared, maybe just misunderstood. In that moment, overwhelmed by fear, shame, and the pressure to “act right,” she did what so many parents do when they get caught between love and judgment- she reacted. A scolding, a slap, a word too sharp, trying to prove she was a responsible parent, trying to make it all go away. But children don’t always see the fear behind our anger. They feel the sting, the disbelief, the unbearable loneliness of not being heard. And so, a child went home, closed the door, and in the silence that followed, the weight of not being believed became too much to bear. No rebellion, no tantrum -just a small note, heartbreakingly simple, asking only to be trusted.
This isn’t about one family or one incident. It’s about all the invisible moments we miss. When a child’s truth is dismissed, when shame is used in place of dialogue, when discipline forgets to be gentle.
For the mother, the pain is beyond what words can reach. In that split second, she was a woman fighting to be seen as a good parent, afraid of what others would think, anxious to protect her child’s future in the only way she thought was possible at that time. She didn’t slap out of cruelty, but out of confusion, panic, and inherited ideas of discipline. She didn’t know that this would be their last interaction. Now, she is left not just with grief, but with a silence that echoes louder than anything else in her life.
Parenting doesn’t come with pause buttons or perfect responses. It’s full of moments where love and fear collide, and mistakes happen. But this story -painful and quiet  is a call to all of us. To pause before reacting. To listen without assuming. To understand that a child’s world is smaller, but their emotions are not. And sometimes, what could save a life is not punishment or perfection, but something far simpler: a hand held, a voice that says, “I believe you,” and the space to feel safe in being imperfect
This could be any one of us. Let this not be a story of blame, but one of awakening for children who need to be heard, and for parents who deserve better ways to respond. Because in the end, a child doesn’t remember how loud the world was — they remember whether their voice was heard within it. And sometimes, the most powerful act of love is not to correct, but to believe — fully, gently, and without condition.

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